If porn movies were to be believed, every man’s penis jumps to a massive erection at the slightest cause and is impervious to mood killers of any sort. Here’s a little sex tip that more women need to know: The penis is actually far more moody than one might think. True, when its owner practices sensible penis care, it’s generally in a “can do” state – but that doesn’t mean certain mood killers can’t cause his confident façade to falter.
What are some of these mood killers that turn a raging hard-on into a sleepy softy?
Infantilizing the organ.
A penis likes to be appreciated for his manliness and virility. When the luscious woman he’s about to bring pleasure to is talking about him, he wants her to use the appropriate language: “massive,” “amazing” and “awe-inspiring” are adjectives that readily come to mind that are much appreciated by a peppy member. “Cute,” “sweet” and “adorable,” on the other hand, are not. Their use leads to the quick deflating of a formerly swollen member.
Guys tend to be competitive and like to know that they have come out on top in any contest. This is especially true when talking about a man’s sexual performance and/or manhood. A sex tip to always remember: It’s never a good idea to negatively compare what a man is currently doing, or anything about his penis, with another man’s performance or endowment while engaged in sexual activity. (Talking about this another time is fair game, but not in the heat of the moment.) It’s even risky to make a positive comparison when a guy is hard at work; it may trigger a fear that he has to keep performing at this level or lose in the “who’s the better lover” contest with your past partners.
Waiting too long.
It’s a general rule of thumb: If a penis is hard, it generally would like a release. Now, guys walk around with boners all day and learn to live with it. However, if a woman is actively rubbing a guy’s crotch with the intention of generating tumescence and then disappears for 10 minutes, it creates a difficult situation: If the firmness starts to diminish, should the guy keep stroking in order to keep it ready for a return? He’s going to get nervous and anxious, worrying whether he will be able to keep it standing at attention – and that can lead to a fast fade.
Being too schedule-oriented.
It’s nice for a man to know that he’s going to have sex in the bedroom on Wednesday and Saturday at 11:15. He likes having something to look forward to. But he also likes a little surprise, the occasional quickie on an off-night or getting it on in the kitchen or the car or under the stars. Being too rigid can result in boredom and/or resentment – neither of which is good for fulfilling sex.
Women don’t appreciate a man whose breath reeks of garlic; neither do men like this in a woman. A slight sexy musk scent can be attractive on a woman’s body, but sweat is another thing altogether – as is an excessively strong perfume. The olfactory senses can be very important to successful sexual encounters. When the nose is assaulted with unpleasant sensations, the penis reacts by losing interest.
A related sex tip: Men also need to pay attention to odors and other health issues, including penis health. Using a first-class penis health crème (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) helps to offset mood killers that he may bring to the bed. For example, strong penis odor is a big complaint of many women. A crème loaded with vitamin A, which has potent anti-bacterial properties, can help significantly. And one with natural moisturizers like Shea butter and vitamin E can help take care of dry or flaky penis skin or other dermatological matters so that the equipment looks strong and appealing.